612
Each time the phone rings
Each “612” area code
Sends panic down my spine
White knuckles my constant way
Burning me cold as ice
Tending to life
My world
In my prime
Ripe with possibilities
The phone rings through
My hands slippery as Minnesota black ice
Wrestling to pick up before voicemail
Hands shaking
Fumbling, rumbling, thick with anticipation
The call I’ve been dreading
Not yet, not now
Relief coursing through to the bone
We connect
Unable to articulate her feelings
She sticks to yes’ and no’s
As twenty questions ensue
My voice calm as a patient Mother
One she never was
Or could ever be
Her voice wracked with frustration
Unable to express her need
My right arm tremoring with fear
Holding the voice steady yet the body
Expressing the truth I am unable to allow
Me struggling to understand her need
She attempting to understand herself
Twenty questions adding a half hour plus
Pauses ripe with meaning
We shared more through the silence
Then when misunderstood words filled our lives
A Mother and Daughter at odds
Now simply filled with love
Our hearts creating clarity of understanding
No past allowed interference
Simply the mind searching for the words
And as the heart opened to receive
We found our way to mutual need
Union without bounds
Words without definitions
Sharing without requirements
Joy without expectations
Hearts without walls